John Gottman can listen to a couple for 5 minutes and determine, with 91% accuracy, whether they’ll divorce.
He was featured in Malcolm Gladwell’s book Blink.
Gottman’s researched marriage for over 40 years and couples that attend his workshops have half the relapse rate that standard therapy provides.
His book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is excellent and rich with information.
In it he debunks a lot of myths about marriage, explains why marriages go bad and what can be done about it.
The Four Horsemen
How can he tell who will split up? There are a number of indicators but at the core of Gottman’s research are ” The Four Horsemen.” These are the four things that indicate a marriage apocalypse is on its way:
- Criticism – Complaints are fine. Criticism is more global — it attacks the person, not their behavior. They didn’t take out…
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